Food For Thought;

By Dr Banabasi Marandure

There is no age in terms of the number of years that we can use as a measure to recommend for marriage. There are 40 or 50 years of people who behave like teenagers and are very immature. Then there are people in their early 20s who behave very maturely and live their lives very responsible. So we can’t use age as a measure of maturity but behave.

Now my opinion is that, when you find the person that you love, and you fairly love each other, there is nothing that should stop you from getting married.

There is this mindset that many people have that I will need to accumulate wealth first before getting married. As much as I believe that there is no one formula to life, the common thing that I know is that you will be able to find true love when you are still financially down. Whatever that will come after you have money is questionable. There are higher chances that you will settle for a person who loves what you are not who you are. This might be the reason why we have experienced so much divorce in recent years.

Find your life partner and marry before you become rich, work your lives, and build it together.

A strong community is built by complete family setup, a strong nation built by complete family setup where the wife and a husband stay together.

I don’t overlook single parents. They also do a wonderful job to raise a family single-handedly. For that, we salute.